In my first article for Caregiving magazine, I shared tips for new caregivers and lessons learned, based on my caregiving experience. I also interviewed two caregivers in Chicago who provided advice.
Beatriz Badikian-Gartler, a retired professor, discussed the challenges of finding additional hands-on family support. Eventually, she hired caregivers, which allowed her to take a break from caring for her husband around the clock.
Mike H., who cares for his wife, said not to judge your loved one and their actions. “It’s unbelievably important,” he said. “If she thinks that I’m disapproving of her, that’s going to serve no good purpose. How I make her feel is more important than what I say. She is, and needs to always feel, deeply loved.”
Their advice resonated with me and I hope it’s helpful for others, too.
Mary Guiden 